Hi
Posted last night about my poorly baby... Not much better tonight but I'm really struggling with the feeding. I've been absolutely sure he needed milk all evening but he's been refusing to suck. He's been crying on and off for hours - last feed was at 6pm and then from 9pm till now (11.15) he's been screaming but arching away and screaming more everytime I offer the breast.
Since he's got this horrible virus, I really didn't want him to go longer than 5 hours - which I know was far too much anyway but it wasn't for want of trying...
In desperation, me and the DH just sat here and I expressed while tipping it first into a cup, which he had a bit of, and then, in the end, into his very first bottle which he glugged (so I knew my instincts were right)... I think he had about 120mls in total
Since the feed he is much brighter, no more whingeing, sleepiness and screaming - he's lying next to me now chatting and wriggling...
Leaving aside all the massive emotional stuff this throws up (rejection! bottles! me me me...) I'm now worrying about what it is that's stopping him suckling me - any ideas - is he just too tired and poorly?
And am I now doomed to do this through the night, till he's better, forever...?
Never underestimate the dramaqueen potential of the Monkeybird, but honest, I'm really fed up.
On a more pragmatic note, I also now have a half filled bottle of EBM that he has already drunk half of. Do I have to chuck this given he's mixed saliva, snot etc in there, or is it good for a while? How long? At room temp? or should I fridge it?
And the other little bits of EBM in my pots that I also have saved here (I know, but I do have loads of milk and he is a massive boy...) - there's one he cup-fed from, AKA mixed with saliva/snot combo, and a tiny bit... Can I just keep those next to the bed and give them later.
Sorry to be so detailed but in a state...
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Monkeybird · 28/12/2007 23:28
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28/12/2007 23:40
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