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you wrote the following in SGK's thread:
When a baby who is being responsively breastfed, with no restrictions on timing or frequency, and being given 'extra' ebm, does not gain weight as expected, there are four possibilities:
- the baby is growing physiologically, ie the growth is normal for that baby
- there is something organically 'amiss' in the baby such as underlying infection, a heart defect, a rare and non-obvious metabolic disorder
- the breastmilk supply is maxed out, because of a difficult start (there is some evidence that capacity is calibrated in the first weeks, and for some women and babies, that might mean supply is capped at a level lower than the baby needs)
- the baby is not transferring milk as effectively as he should be because of less than optimal positioning and attachment
Reason 2 would almost certainly show up with other symptoms by now, including weight loss.
As you know, babycarrot long since dropped off the bottom of the charts. I sincerely hope that the reason for her poor gain is number 1, but...
...can you provide a bit more info on what symptoms I might observe if there was a heart problem, or other disorder? I realise I sound like a complete hypochondriac (on dd's behalf IYKWIM), but I find it hard to hold my nerve when she seems to be a more extreme case than anyone else as far as I can tell at the mo.
Anyway, it's my job to make sure I don't miss anything, no matter how repetitive or paranoid I sound!
I am of course somewhat reassured that several GPs and paeds have listened to her heart with stethoscopes, so presumably they would have picked up any concern. I hope!
Just that, well, things aren't improving. She's averaging 2 ounces a week, and is only 9lb 4 oz at 20 weeks old. At this rate, she just diverges further and further away from the bottom centile line, and will never catch up back onto the charts.
piffle mentioned her dd was similarly skinny, but that she has a heart problem
Could I be missing some underlying problem? God, I hope not, but I'll never be able to live with myself if I'm complacent and miss something.
No stone unturned.