Hi everyone,
I know these posts are probably ten a penny but I just had to get something ‘out there’.
Baby was born at 36 weeks via c section. Sugars went down after 24 hours despite me feeding colostrum via syringe and trying to feed via breast. We were advised to top up with formula which we tried to do via cup at first but then transitioned to bottle. Jaundice followed which seems to be clearing now.
I am desperately trying to up my supply and feed via the breast. Trying to put her on each feed but she often just sucks the nipple shield or refuses the boob. I’m pumping 8 times a day but only getting 1oz each feed on average (no idea if this is ok or not). Started fenugreek today and am using the sistema pump. Topping up with formula, trying to pace the feed. I’ve started dreading the pumping as I’m worried about the supply/how much I’m pumping.
I just feel like a bit of a failure at the moment with the breastfeeding. Trying to remain calm but it’s hard. Got a lactation consultant hopefully coming this week as the midwife just says ‘you’re topping up though so that’s ok’. She also has a small posterior tongue tie but I’m not sure if that is affecting things.
Just wanted to see if anyone’s supply improved, or if they had a similar experience as I feel quite alone with it right now. I think hormones, and lack of sleep is not helping.
I just keep thinking she’s 36 weeks, she needs the breast milk and I’m failing her if I don’t up the supply/switch the balance of formula. I wish I didn’t think like this.
Grateful for any responses
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Trying to BF - pumping - feeling despondent
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LJMilkTea · 13/12/2020 22:10
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