hi i posted this question when i was pregnant ,in the pregnancy section
ive just been thinking about breastfeeding and i think its something i want to do well at least give it my best shot
do you know what puts me off though the fact its not our legal right to do it in public
which i think is outrageous
i think it must be horrible to do it in public and be told off
or to be asked leave wherever you are
im shocked by the amount of people that think its disgusting !!
im shocked by the amount of people that think its disgusting !!
the reason i thought so many people found it offensive was largley down to this incident ;
well what happned to me was i was in a busy town center pharmacy and a mum that was waiting for her prescription was sitting there bf her baby while waiting, i didnt even notice until about 5 people started having a go at her and muttering things
one man goes oh someones got there tit out over there in a really horrible putting down tone then he goes oh now shes got the other one out tut tut
she only had one out at a time she just switched over
his comments set this other old bat off she was about 57
who actually started having a right go as opposed to just making comments
she started saying
when theres facilities such as baby rooms they should be used!
the mum just looked close to tears and said nothing so i tried to stick up for the lady because im havily pregnant and i felt sorry for her
so i said to the old bat she doesnt have to use the baby room if she doesnt want to because its flithy in there and stinks
old bat replied well its a private thing bf it should be done in private.
to which i replied its up to the mum where she wants to do it.
then the old bat startd saying it has to be done in private because otherwise the baby gets distracted! as if to say you dont know what your talking about your just pregnant
i was so mad i tried my best to stick up for the mum
but it really shocked me and put me off breastfeeding
anyway now my point is my dd is 7 weeks old and excl bf,thanks to a LOT of help from the wonderful mumsnetters! [three cheers for them ]
and me and dh and dd are going out for lunch on sat as its our first wedding anniversary we are going back to the place where got married its an old elizabethan hall/ hotel
and very posh
i know im gonna have to feed dd as she is still b/feeding constantly
i dont know what to say if someone has a go at me though ,but i dont want stay couped up in the hous for ever either and why should i ?
how do you go about dealing with this?
do you have any hints and tips?
or even better quick one liners to say to rude people? be good to have a quick answer to fire back at anyone that wants to have a go !!
im not very good at thinking of something quick to say at the time,then i always think afterwards ....why didnt i say such and such !!
sorry this is so long xx
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kittenbaby · 16/08/2007 11:27
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