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Do baby/mother receive any health benefits if they stop BF BEFORE 6 months

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Elsbells Mon 13-Aug-07 16:43:29

I have had a terrible time bf this time round and have decided when DD is 3 months I am going to stop bf all together (am mix feeding now - DD is nearly 10 weeks).

We have had to deal w/low milk supply and tongue tie that was just 'fixed' 1 1/2 weeks ago and I am just tired DD being unsatisfied AND painful nipples (and NO it is not the position/latch - it was due to tongue tie - been to sooooo many support groups over the weeks and no one could understand why it still hurt).

Anyhow, I have been doing some research online and all the benefits (re cancer, allergies etc) all seem to say you have to bf for 6 months. Does this mean all this hard work over the weeks was merely just for 'food' and a great bonding opportunity BUT will have no real long term health benefits for DD (or me?).

I feel a bit cheated if that is the case.

Oblomov Mon 13-Aug-07 16:46:46

No, no this is not the case at all. Please take pride in what you have achieved so far.
Hunker or harpsi will be along soon, to re-assure you.

lemonaid Mon 13-Aug-07 16:52:41

I have this saved... while the benefits increase if you get to 6 months, there are huge benefits even to early breastfeeding.


IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR JUST A FEW DAYS, he will have received your colostrum, or early milk. By providing antibodies and the food his brand-new body expects, nursing gives your baby his first - and easiest "immunization" and helps get his digestive system going smoothly. Breastfeeding is how your baby expects to start, and helps your own body recover from the birth.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR FOUR TO SIX WEEKS, you will have eased him through the most critical part of his infancy. Newborns who are not breastfed are much more likely to get sick or be hospitalized, and have many more digestive problems than breastfed babies.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 3 OR 4 MONTHS, her digestive system will have matured a great deal, and she will be much better able to tolerate the foreign substances in commercial formulas. If there is a family history of allergies, though, you will greatly reduce her risk by waiting a few more months before adding anything at all to her diet of breastmilk. And giving nothing but your milk for the first four months gives strong protection against ear infections for a whole year.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 6 MONTHS, she will be much less likely to suffer an allergic reaction to formula or other foods; the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends waiting until about 6 months to offer solid foods. Nursing for at least 6 months helps ensure better health throughout your baby's first year of life, and reduces your own risk of breast cancer. Nursing for 6 months or more may greatly reduce your little one's risk of ear infections and childhood cancers.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 9 MONTHS, you will have seen him through the fastest and most important brain and body development of his life on the food that was designed for him - your milk. Nursing for at least this long will help ensure better performance all through his school years.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR A YEAR, you can avoid the expense and bother of formula. Her one-year-old body can probably handle most of the table foods your family enjoys. Many of the health benefits this year of nursing has given your child will last her whole life. She will have a stronger immune system, for instance, and will be much less likely to need orthodontia or speech therapy. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends nursing for at least a year, to help ensure normal nutrition and health for your baby.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 18 MONTHS, you will have continued to provide your baby's normal nutrition and protection against illness at a time when illness is common in other babies. Your baby is probably well started on table foods, too. He has had time to form a solid bond with you – a healthy starting point for his growing independence. And he is old enough that you and he can work together on the weaning process, at a pace that he can handle. A former U.S. Surgeon General said, "it is the lucky baby... that nurses to age two."

IF YOUR CHILD WEANS WHEN SHE IS READY, you can feel confident that you have met your baby's physical and emotional needs in a very normal, healthy way. In cultures where there is no pressure to wean, children tend to nurse for at least two years. The World Health Organization and UNICEF strongly encourage breastfeeding through toddlerhood: "Breastmilk is an Important Source of energy and protein, and helps to protect against disease during the child's second year of life." Our biology seems geared to a weaning age of between 2 1/2 and 7 years, and it just makes sense to build our children's bones from the milk that was designed to build them. Your milk provides antibodies and other protective substances as long as you continue nursing, and families of nursing toddlers often find that their medical bills are lower than their neighbors' for years to come. Mothers who have nursed longterm have a still lower risk of developing breast cancer. Children who were nursed longterm tend to be very secure, and are less likely to suck their thumbs or carry a blanket. Nursing can help ease both of you through the tears, tantrums, and tumbles that come with early childhood, and helps ensure that any illnesses are milder and easier to deal with. It's an all-purpose mothering tool you won't want to be without! Don't worry that your child will nurse forever. All children stop eventually, no matter what you do, and there are more nursing toddlers around than you might guess.

WHETHER YOU NURSE FOR A DAY OR FOR SEVERAL YEARS, the decision to nurse your child is one you need never regret. And whenever weaning takes place, remember that it is a big step for both of you. If you choose to wean before your child is ready, be sure to do it gradually, and with love.

©1997 Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC

Oblomov Mon 13-Aug-07 17:00:00

Lemonaid, you star. Has that made you feel better elsbells ?

tiktok Mon 13-Aug-07 17:30:55

NCT have a similar thing, too - prob on the website somewhere.

Elsbells, any breastfeeding makes a difference.

Katy44 Mon 13-Aug-07 17:37:24

NCT: reasons to be proud

Elsbells Tue 14-Aug-07 08:31:20

Well this has made me feel LOADS better.

I do feel a bit gutted that I can't continue further but it does feel good that the small amount of time bf has some sort of benefit.

Thanks for the info everyone.

twofalls Tue 14-Aug-07 09:01:15

It has made me feel a lot better actually and dd is 16 months - we stopped at 6 weeks and I was so upset. This has made me feel that all the pain and angst was worth it!

Elsbells Tue 14-Aug-07 11:58:47

I think ALL women should read this who have stopped BF. The guilt and sadness associated with the decision to stop BF earlier than intended is so heavy times.

This can give a real boost to our emotions.

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