Hi everyone!
It is my first time posting in here ! I’m also a first time mum !
I’m feeling so discouraged! I’ve been exclusively breastfeeding my 3 month old ( minus a few top ups of formula when he wasn’t gaining weight ) and I’m still struggling! It’s still hurts and my nipples are constantly cracked and bleeding !
In the beginning I expected it to hurt ! After the 6 week mark though I started to worry . But when I went into forums there were lots of people still struggling . When we got to 8 weeks and I was still in pain, I could still see mums posting about their struggles. Everyone says it gets better , often after the 3 month mark . I’m now at 13 weeks and I’m still in so much pain . I see very little online about mums STILL in pain at 3 months . I’m now worried 😟
I’ve seen 7 Lactation consultants over the past 3 months . He’s had a tongue tie snipped twice . I even went private a few weeks ago to see a specialist to check the tongue tie hadn’t grown back again . Apparently he has the perfect mouth and tongue .
Every Lactation consultant has told me his latch looks perfect! I’ve spent a great deal of time being assessed and everything looks great . I’ve tried every position , every type of latch, I’ve watched every YouTube video and I'm getting nowhere . I’m sick of people telling me it shouldn’t hurt , that everything looks great.
My nipples are so damaged that I’m scared of permanent damage . Ive tried nipple shields but my son wasn’t gaining weight and feeding was taking over an hour , only to have him ask for food an hour later . My poor boy was feeding 50% of his day , he must have been exhausted and he wasn’t even getting enough nourishment.
Two nights ago my boy unlatched and my nipple was bleeding so bad his entire mouth, nose and chin was covered in blood ( it looked like he had been punched in the face )! I had a crack in my nipple that was bleeding AGAIN! But this time it was much worse . My top and nursing pillow was soaked in blood. I was shaking . I’m back with the nipple shield but only on the one side in hopes he’s getting enough milk from the other side.
When I called a breastfeeding helpline they didn’t seem too concerned about the blood. The GP is no help and suggested moving to formula ( it’s there for a reason she said)
I can’t pump well . I majorly struggle to even get 50mls and my boobs end up engorged. Plus I HATE pumping .
I just want to know if anyone has gone through this much pain and this much struggle? DOES IT GET BETTER?? :(
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MichelleOR84 · 28/05/2019 14:55
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