DS is 13 weeks old. We've had problem after problem with bf'ing. Tongue tie which was cut, healed and then cut again, milk blebs, Raynaud's of the nipples, mastitis, sore cracked bleeding nipples, etc. Even now at 13 wks his latch isn't great, feeds I'd say 90% of the time are painful and it hurts for like an hour afterwards too. Oh and he's started teething early so has now added in clamping down with his gums like I'm a teething toy!
When I was pregnant I was very pragmatic and said I'd give it a try and if it didn't work I'd switch to bottles, but since I've had him it's become this massive thing in my mind that I both want to and don't want to give up.
He does take a bottle, we introduced it before his tongue tie was cut to give my battered nipples a break, and he has a small bottle early hours but sometimes he doesn't want it and waits for boobie.
I just don't know what to do. I feel so fed up, stressed out and anxious! I feel like our crap journey with breastfeeding has cast a shadow over our first few months.
When do you say enough is enough and quit??
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Endless problems with BF. When do you know when to call it a day?
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YourHandInMyHand · 11/04/2019 15:51
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