I have late onset decreased supply. In the early days, I had such bad engorgement and huge breasts that ached all the time. DS and I had terrible feeding issues with it taking over 6 weeks for him to latch in under 30 min reliably. Things settled down but I made so many mistakes (fed from one side because he seemed full after one side, block fed for a while, cut one of his night feeds, tried to feed to schedule) that led to late onset decreased supply that I only noticed a few days ago. It didn't help that I've been very anxious and stressed with a lot on my plate. If you're not familiar with the condition: ibconline.ca/information-sheets/late-onset-decreased-milk-supply-or-flow/
DS has been intermittently refusing the breast and impatient for about a month, but in the last few days things have deteriorated. He only attempts to suck for one to 30 seconds before pulling off and sometimes crying. The only way he will feed at the breast is if the let down comes straight away or I induce the let down with a pump then frantically get him onto the breast. Even when he feeds like that, he seems to feed for 1-2 min on one side +/- 1-2 on the other side. I am using breast compressions to keep him sucking.
His nappies are lighter across the day despite me offering more feeds. His weight gain across three weeks has been negligible (100g). I've had to use a bottle with EBM a few times in the last few days. I tried a bit of cup feeding today. I've been on the phone to breastfeeding hotlines, baby hotlines and a lactation consultant is coming tomorrow morning. I'm about to try some domperidone and have been taking fenugreek for a couple of days. I'm pumping after most BFing sessions to try and up supply but it doesn't seem to have made a difference.
Has anyone been through this and had the problem be this bad? Did you and LO manage to come out of it? It feels like the end of BFing for me and potentially even the end of EBM because my supply feels so low.
I know the worst case scenario is he goes onto a bottle with formula, but I feel like such a failure...
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HELP! Messages of hope? Fussy feeding at crisis pt - 4 mo and low milk supply
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saveupallthedays · 15/09/2018 05:33
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