DS is 6 weeks old and EBF, suffers with reflux and trapped wind. He’s on Omeprazole and Infacol.
His tongue tie was fixed 4 weeks ago, sadly his latch never improved and I’m using nipple shields. He’s gaining weight and has plenty of wet and dirty nappies. My supply is quite good but I have a strong letdown.
He’s been cluster feeding from very early on. Feeds are normally between 1 and 6 hours long
Basically all of his feeds are clustered. Yesterday he spent almost 9 hours on the boob - 2 in the morning, 2 in the afternoon and 5 hours of hell between 7 and midnight with only short breaks. He would probably go on for longer if DH hadnt taken him and walked him to sleep as I was breaking down. Then he slept for 4 1/2 hours, only waking up now for a night feed (which has now lasted for an hour and a half
Feeds are frustrating too - he fusses on the breast, fights it, cries, cramps from bad wind even though I’m forever burping him and helping him fart.
He has 1-2 (if we’re lucky) long naps a day and a few catnaps on the boob (under 15 minutes). But when he does finally fall asleep he goes on for a good few hours. Even so, he doesn’t sleep enough. He’s awake for hours at a time.
He either actively resists sleep being far too alert, or gets woken up by trapped wind soon after he drifts off.
I’m aware he does a lot of comfort feeding, but I don’t know what to do about it. He sometimes takes the dummy, sometimes refuses it. When he does take it, it doesn’t send him to sleep and buys me maybe 10-15 minutes before he starts crying for the breast.
The midwives, lactation consultant and HV keep telling me to continue with responsive feeding - “as long as he’s putting on weight continue with what you’ve been doing” - and tbh it’s all I know to do with him now. Trying to settle him in other ways ends up pointless and frustrating as I know he’ll just end up on the boob anyway and then I have to nurse him to sleep however long it takes, hoping the wind won’t then wake him up.
DH is involved as much as he can, but his attempts to settle him are often futile as he’s inconsolable without the boob.
I don’t know how much longer I can take, but worse yet, I’ve no idea if this is even ok. I think I’ve become too reliant on the breast to settle him. I thought about introducing a bottle of expressed milk, but I don’t know if that would help at all with comfort sucking - seems like I’d just be giving myself extra work for nothing.
Is there anything you think I/we should be doing differently? Does this ever end?
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Cluster feeding round the clock - is this normal?
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Ven83 · 07/11/2017 06:42
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