i have a nearly 6 wk DS who i have been bf. its never been easy -problems latching on thru to bleeding cracked nipples and for a while i cried at most feeds and dreaded the next. recently -last couple of wks things have improved and i felt proud to have stuck with it despite lots of people telling me to give up. last night i visited a friend with a 4 day old ds and saw her bf with no problems/pain etc it was so different to my own experience and while pleased for her made me feel low about my own bfeeding.
then when i got home we had a bad feed -lots of thrashing about tugging at breast and pain when latching on. the tears came again and wouldnt stop -especially when dh who has been amazing throughout said -do you need the pillow still? and saying that my friend was doing it without and maybe that would help. i kno he meant well but just compounded my feelings of failure.
i ended up going to bed crying and still feel really low. do you think some women and their babes just aren't meant to bf?
please dont suggest a lac cons ive seen one twice and there was nothing she could suggest to improve things.
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