Hi everyone
My baby was born at 30+4 and admitted straight into NICU. I started expressing breast milk as soon as I could for her to be fed through her tube.
Once she was out of her incubator and her suck reflex started, I began trying to breastfeed but as my nipples are quite flat and she was still very small, we both found it difficult. We eventually managed to get her to latch on using a nipple shield but it seems that she never gets enough milk when using it (bad weight gain, drier nappies) despite a decent milk supply.
In order for her to gain enough weight and come home it was decided that she was to have top ups using a bottle. With my let down not being that quick and the bottles being quicker she quickly started to prefer them over the breast :(
Since coming home we continued to try using the nipple shield. However she still never gets enough when using it as evidenced by her weight and nappies. She just gets disinterested and falls asleep. We've tried all the tricks to wake her up and keep her going but she just clamps her mouth shut.
Ive also tried direct feeding from the breast but she can't latch still and gets very frustrated. As my nipples are quite flat I've tried pumping a bit just beforehand to get them out and to start the flow for her but it still didn't help. She will just keep her mouth open and shake it side to side as if she can't feel it. Maybe she's used to the nipple shield or bottle teat shape sticking into her mouth where my nipples don't?
The whole process of expressing a bit, breast feeding with the shield, topping up with a bottle, settling her then doing a full express was almost bring me around to the next feed and was just too much.
So now for the last few weeks she has had a lot of just bottle feeds of expressed milk. I'm still expressing every 3 hours to keep up the supply. This is also exhausting.
So I guess, after all that, the question is: does anyone think we'll ever make it to just breastfeeding? Has anyone's baby had latching issues/predominantly bottles then managed to breastfeed? Or do I just come to terms with having to express every 3 hours (my supply dips if I go any longer) and feed by bottle until she's almost weaned?
Sorry for the long post, but any input will be greatly appreciated!
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xMamfax · 18/12/2016 21:10
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