Hi this is my first time posting but I have often read these threads for advice since my little boy was born. I apologies for the length this post will be but in honestly about ready to completely give up and I am very emotional at the moment.
Background: my son is now 9 weeks and 5 days. He was born 7 weeks premature. Birth was completell natural with no complications. Due to low birth weight he went to the special car baby unit until we he was discharged at 11 days old. The only issue he had was jaundice and establishing breastfeeding. He has been on my milk since day 2 when my milk came in enough to cover his tube feeds.
Since comming home from the hospital he has been a very good feeder, always lathing well and gaining weight like a little weed. I did have issues with oversupply but hand expressing and block feeding sorted that so it hasn't ever really been an issue. He has had some feedig issues related to silent reflux and he is currently on infant gaviscon and ranitidine. These made a world of difference until Sunday.
He has been slightly off with his feeding since thursay night after his 2month jabs. But nothing major. Until 2am this morning. He has been waking up (if he even goes to sleep that is) every 1 hour and 20mins for a feed. At first I thought it would possibly be another growth spurt but he has gone from feeding for 20 minutes plus to barely making 5 mins feeding and that feeding is broken and he is latching and unlatching even 30 seconds or so. He is super fussy before during and after the feed. Due to his fussiness and the way he is writhing around my nipples are now raw and it is painful to even feed him for a short amount of time.
I am honestly one feed away from putting him on formula as today I haven't even been able to eat or go to the toilet as if I put him down (awake or asleep) he begins to cry/scream. He has been on me solidly since 5am and I don't know if I can do this anymore. I haven't even got out of bed today and I barely get to leave my flat once a week if I'm lucky as he barely goes long enough between feeds and I have so much medicine to give him at each feed. My husband works full time and has to sleep at his work a couple of times a week so he helps when he can but other than the odd bottle of expressed milk there isn't much he can do.
Any advice appreciated
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marylegs23 · 12/07/2016 15:24
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