Please don't flame me. DD2 is 4.5 months and EBF. I BF DD1 until 8 months.
We got off to a really tough start with feeding this time round. DD2 fed for almost 48 hours solid when we came out of hospital and continued to cluster feed for 12 hours overnight every night for a week. With a 20 month old at home this was pretty tough going. At 8 days post birth I developed mastitis. I was so exhausted and with running around after a toddler I didn't get to the GP quick enough and it lead to sepsis and a 4 day stint in intensive care. I kept the baby with me and continued to BF throughout the hospital stay.
I haven't enjoyed feeding at all this time round. She has a shallow latch (I've been to numerous support groups etc and just can't seem to change it). She has never slept longer than 3 hours in a row and for the past month has been up every single hour in the night. She barely feeds in the day (too distracted by DD1) and tanks up all night. She clamps her gums on my nipple and yanks really hard. She has bad wind due to the shallow latch.
I'm exhausted. I don't want to BF anymore. I know it won't change her sleeping but at least DH could take some of the night shift. I need a break.
Problem: she won't take a bottle. We've been trying for 2 months. Have tried tommee tippee, Dr Browns, lansinoh, mam, avent, nuk and mimijumi bottles. Have tried expressed BM, aptimil and hipp organic. Absolutely no joy whatsoever. Have tried DH doing it when I'm out, DM doing it when I'm out, me doing it, various positions, in her bouncy chair.
I'm on the edge. I haven't slept longer than an hour at a time for a month. I can't sleep when the baby sleeps as a) she rarely sleeps and b) I have a toddler at home too. I really, really want to stop BF, but I can't. I cry at the thought of continuing to feed and am worried about slipping into PND.
Any advice please?
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