Dear all,
I am expecting our first baby in a few weeks and am trying to get some advice on people's experiences with breastfeeding, weaning etc.
I am Indian, living in the Uk for a decade, come from an EBF culture in India (for cultural, financial reasons formula feeding hadnt really caught on in India when I grew up). I am married into an exclusively formular feeding White British family in the UK (but that is not important, i hardly see them - but I do anticipate a pressure to formula feed, from early signs already). None of this is important!
Ive been making tons of colostrum (as my mum and grandma did too) and have on the advice of midwife collected it in about 30 syringes which are in our freezer. I collect about 5 mls in ten mins it seems. Not sure about supply later of course. Have done quite a bit of prep, got support line numbers saved, been going to our local brasserie and also had a session with our local private lactation consultant who is a tongue tie specialist.
Anyway - I am due to return to work when he is 6 months old (completed). Wondering if you had any advice on this (v v v tentartive feeding to weaning plan?)
0-4 months - the plan is to exclusively breastfeed from breast.
At 4 months - to introduce a Tommee Tippee first cup to encourage some feeds to be Expressed BM - and I also start expressing and freezing milk at this stage for later.
5-6 months - He continues to be on exclusive breastmilk till 6 months - but in the final couple of months I try (if he can!) to get him to take fewer feeds of the milk from breast and increasingly more from the free flow cup. I continue to express milk for the freezer
I return to work at this point - with some flexibility in arranging my hours on some days - but a full time return. He starts going to his childminder.
7th Month - We start introducing solids as appropriate. He gets the recommended 5-600 ml a day of milk - of which maybe 70% is expressed BM and the rest is a good quality baby milk (Thinking Aptamil follow on/or first infant milk). In terms of this first month of weaning I am thinking - mashed chunky steamed vegetables, mushy chunky fruits, porridge with some of his EBM or Formula.
8th month - Same as above, weaning diversifies and the 5-600 ml milk a day becomes slightly tilted towards baby formula milk from a cup. In this month of weaning I will probably think of adding meat/poultry/fish, lentils and pulses.
9th month - weaning diversifies into three meals a day and we try to move completely to baby formula milk from a cup with maybe some expressed Breast Milk. In this stage we will try adding some of his mum's Indian spices (turmeric, coriander, cumin - nothing else) - in the form of Daal soups, chapattis, mild curries with only spices as above.
10th month - we cut out the expressed breast milk and he continues to get infant milk from a cup till he is 1year at which point we switch to Cows Milk. at this point we hope he begins to take an interest in our family meals.
Now I know the caveats - I may not be able to breastfeed, I may have breastfeeding problems, he may or may not take to formula from 7 months etc. But this is a very tentative plan and I seeking advice on if it sounds okay as an intention - nothing but an intention.
You will see I dont mention bottles - that is because I would ideally like to bypass the bottle stage of things and go directly to a teat-free suction-free cup - like a free flow first cup, a Doidy Cup etc.
So - my questions are -
- does this look realistic (assuming all goes well - which is a big assumption)?
- Is it likely that I will be able to express and freeze milk when he is 4,5,6 months old to last for the reduced breastmilk feeds over months 7,8,9 as above? Of course I know this is dependent on supply?
- For the gradual shift to formula from 7 months any particular brand comes to mind? i know they are all the same, and would have liked to go with Hipp - but would like a formula that introduces dairy to him (hipp doesnt) - hence was thinking Aptamil
- Anyone else bypassed bottles to use cups? Any prefs for a teat/suction-free free-flow cup? I dont like the faff of the fancy ones and Tommee Tippee's basic £1.50 first cup seemed like a good starting point.
- And finally, do the weaning foods seem okay?
Sorry about the epic message!!!