2 week old DS is BF, pretty much exclusively - he's had one or 2 formula bottles but I'm lucky that my supply is really good, he latches well, lots of wet dirty nappies & putting on weight like a tropper. So all good there.
By day he's on a pretty regular 3 hour cycle - feeding, maybe a nappy change, then down for sleep - usually 2 hours, but sometimes he wakes afettr 1 or 1.5 looking for a feed. That was the pattern yesterday and the night before last he'd been on a consistent 3 hour cycle during the night. However last night (am not in the UK so it's daytime here as I write this), he fed as usual at 5. Then didn't really drop off for a sleep, hung out in the moses basket seemingly quite happily - feed at 6.45pm ... then 7.45pm, then 9.45pm (steadily getting more and more agitated), then 11.55pm. During this time he would sometimes falls asleep in our arms but really was just getting more and more screamy, rigid legs, back arching, drawing legs up. If we tried toput him in moses basket asleep (which usually works) he's ake 5 - 10 minutes later screaming. It felt like wind to me (we've had similar nights previously that I've put down to not winding him properly) but no amount of winding would soothe it. A couple of mls of gripe water at the 7.45 and 11.55 feeds did nothing.
In desparation DH gave him a bottle of formula at 1.30am and he gulped down 80mls - surely if he had really bad wind he'd react to milk the same way whether it was breast or formula? I fed him at 4am and 7am and he really fussed at the breast and wasn't that interested and then resumed screaming. He really seemed uncomfortable or in pain, but I'm a FTM, maybe he was ovestimulated by all the handling/winding (& no doubt he was picking up on our stress too!)
Would it be something I ate? I realise the salad I had at about 6.30pm had red cabbage in it but I've eaten it before with no ill effects. I also had a rather large bowl of ice cream - Might a big whack of dairy set him off? Likewise I've eaten dairy in the last 2 weeks and he's been fine, though admittedly probably not as much in one go. Would it affect breast milk so fast?
It's now 1.45pm here and he's been back to normal since his 9.30am feed, latching well at the breast and being very chilled out. He's been asleep since 11.30, after feeding v calmly & efficiently at 11am for 20 minutes.
Sorry this is a total novel. Does anyone have any ideas? Is this just one of those things? Is it not abnormal to have a chilled predictable day-baby who morphs into a screamy monster under cover of darkness? I don't mind broken sleep if it's just getting up to feed him or whatever but it's really horrible seeinghim seem to upset and in pain & feeling powerless to stop it. The thought of another night of it makes me feel faint!!
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2 week old screamed all night... any tips for a [clueless, exhausted] FTM?
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Gennz · 07/12/2014 00:51
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