....how do you feel about formula feeding the others? I ask, because I so often read on here about mums 'succeeding' in BF subsequent children, after 'failing' with their first, or not even trying. (Sometimes the birth order and feeding outcome is different but it's usually that way.) Often these mums feel very happy to have BF their child(ren) successfully and seem to be extra pleased because they didn't BF their other child(ren) and were disappointed by that.
I find the psychology of these situations interesting, I mean, when you know that one or more of your children has been given something which apparently will make them much healthier, more intelligent and more bonded to you, which their siblings were not. Do you feel guilty? Do you notice differences in your children's health and relationship with you? Does it make a difference whether you chose not to breastfeed or were not able to? Does it make a difference if you breastfed them for different amounts of time? Does it matter whether you EBF or mix fed?
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needtobediscreet · 13/08/2014 11:23
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