Hi all ,
Im new here and really desperate to get some advice or support because im really lost . So my lil 'un was born with tongue tie over xmas , it took 3 and half weeks for it be cut it took the HV calling the department and threatening them to get it done then as i was on a waiting list so prob would have been longer, despite being picked up the day she was born it was very late to be sorted in my eyes. Anyway it made bf a complete nightmare , very painful cracked nipples , cluster feeding for hours, and days on end - constant screaming for food and then I developed mastitis which I have now recovered from. Although I still have some damage to one my breasts but pain compared to before is much more manageable. Tounge tie did improve feeding after four days however...
Sadly I have been forced to add in formula feeds due to her not putting on weight on for two weeks ( during and just after TT was cut) as advised by health visitor and midwife , she also lost weight as well during the TT period, so we were admitted into hospital due to her not putting on weight :( the formula was started with one a night to now 4 per day as advised by bf adviser, I am now on a feeding plan to desperately put on weight on 3 hourly ( this was the only way to get out of hospital without further intervention feeding wise). I am on Domperidone (one week now) , eating more myself , ordered some Fenugreek tablets as advised by bf lady, pumping twice a day but with little coming out less than an 1oz due to how long feeds take up 1 hr + , or two or three hours of cluster feeding its hard to pump straight after. I have also tried babymoons which didnt help to much.
I have found this experience horrendous shes 6 weeks old and I feel like im trapped in a vicious circle with no end in sight. i am keen to bf in my heart I am devastated the TT wasn't dealt with sooner and as a result to be combined feeding its hard work feeding and then mixing up bottles and , sterilizing its never ending. Quite clearly bf alone is not working for her ( in terms of weight and happiness etc). I do feel "fuller" since the prescription but again it doesn't seem to be enough for her or help her put on weight alone without formula. I am also out of ideas of what I can do, I feel I have tried everything??? I am very restricted in terms of having to meet weight targets ( she has to be putting on significant weight to keep us out of hospital) which makes trying anything very hard.
Sorry for the very long message its been a long 6 weeks.....
many thanks in advance on any suggestions
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CarrotCake13 · 06/02/2014 15:49
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