I BF my DS for a year before weaning him off as I returned to shift work but he never refused the breast (quite the opposite, fed ALOT and was on 98th centile!) so I'm at a loss as what do do about DD refusing to feed.
Last thursday was a bit fussy and wouldn't feed when we were out, I thought it might be related to the noise and distraction but she has continued to be difficult to feed and unsettled. Screams when I put her to the breast, has a few sucks, comes off cries again, looks for the breast, goes on, has a few sucks, comes off and cries etc etc. I've tried massaging the breast to encourage a faster let down when she goes on which sometimes works, and she often eventually feeds after about 30 mins of distressing thrashing about and crying although I'm not convinced she is feeding that well even when she is on. Last night resorted to a formula bottle which she took without any problem, so totally soul destroying! She woke a couple of hours later and so i co slept with her and she fed loads overnight without much problem but this morning we are back to screaming and on/off boob loads despite feeding her in the quiet of out own home.
Plenty of wet and dirty yellow nappies, fontanelle ok. Bit of snot but no temp. Has been chewing on her hands loads for a fortnight so tried some bongela to no avail. Also gave calpol last night and this morning incase its teething pain or something else.
What to do next? Im crap at pumping so cant get anywhere enough to ffed her or even maintain my previously good supply if this continues.
Any ideas please?? Thanks.
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Breast refusal at 18 weeks, what to do??
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Aboxofmaltesers · 04/11/2013 11:45
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