My dd was born on Monday and so far breast feeding has been very up and down. She started off latching reasonably ok but since I had a visit from the local breast feeding charity on day 2 who showed my how to do it properly to avoid any problems things have gone downhill.
Through the day she feeds roughly every 2 and a half to 3 hours for anywhere between 20 and 40 minutes. At night though she just constantly wants to be in the breast and won't settle otherwise. Other than feeding I haven't found a way to stop her crying yet and so I'm having to sit up with her from 11-6 whilst dh sleeps just constantly nursing. As soon as she finishes or falls asleep if I try to put her down she screams and the only way to stop is to put her back to the breast.
Through the day it isn't so bad due to the timing in between feeds although despite doing everything I was shown (they've been round twice now) the latch is often difficult. At night particularly though she seems to fight against it - I was shown to sort of hold her neck and pretty much shove the nipple in to her mouth whilst wide open holding her tightly to it - but she often arches her back and pushes away with her hands making it very difficult to get her to latch on in the first place.
Now my milk is in I'm having problems with my left breast which is pretty much rock solid and agony. Even my bra touching the nipple hurts and when she goes anywhere near it I shout out in pain. I'm sat here upset with a screaming baby that I know wants feeding all night with one breast in agony and the other sore from constant use and have no idea how to get through the next 4/5 hours.
Finally to add insult to injury my stitches are I'm sure too tight as whenever I move in bed I feel like I'm ripping them apart so am constantly uncomfy.
Please if anyone has any suggestions that could help either ease the pain in my left so I can try alternate breasts for the rest of the night or suggestions to settle her without the constant feeding it would be very much appreciated. I don't want to ring the charity again tomorrow as they just keep telling and showing me the same thing. Thank you and sorry it's so long.
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Excited85 · 03/11/2013 01:28
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