I am a regular but have namechanged for this. I am probably posting this in the wrong place but am really hoping that it is just related to breastfeeding and hence I am posting here
Anyway, having sex since having DD2 a year ago has been pretty few and far between, with an EmCS, breastfeeding, sleepless nights and general exhaustedness, I'm sure we're not the only ones. But, when we have managed it, I am finding it quite painful I know BF can make you a bit dry, and hope that it's just dryness internally that makes it sore.
It sort of stings; I feel as though if DH managed to penetrate more deeply it would be ok but that initial bit is painful enough that it makes me more tense and therefore the situation worse. DH is so gentle and patient, but it is making me sad because I am missing it. I don't remember it being like this after DD1 or even the first time. I'd love to think it was because I had become super-toned, but I know that ain't the case !!
I've had a smear since she was born which was also sore but was clear so i know that it's not anything really nasty.
Anyone else experienced this? Will it improve over time, do you think? Does anyone have any suggestions?
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AKAMMM · 10/07/2013 10:52
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