Thought about posting this in AIBU but not brave enough
I'm 30 weeks pg with DC4 who has a cleft lip. Also have 3 other DS's aged 6, 5 and 2. The younger 2 have EDS and my 5 year old uses a wheelchair. HV came round today to discuss the "support" that's on offer. I'm not interested in most of it as I don't think it will be that helpful but I could do with some decent breastfeeding support.
HV tells me that the rules have changed since I had DS3 and now the breastfeeding group at the childrens centre is for babies under 4 months only, no toddlers allowed. There is a group for older babies but it's at a coffee shop with nobody running it so no professional help and I don't think DS3 would sit quietly in that environment for long. Cleft lip isn't exactly common so it's unlikely that anyone else there will have experienced it but the people who run the "official" group would be much more likely to be able to help.
She suggested I send DS3 to preschool but he's only been walking since christmas, still very clumsy and also really small (currently wearing 9-12 month clothes). He's nowhere near ready for that yet. Nearest group that lets toddlers go is 2 bus rides away and would take me hours to get there and back. Why do they make it so hard for 2nd+ time mums to get breastfeeding support.
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