hello everyone,
this my first post and I wish it was one that didn't worry me so much.
our ds is 22 months old and isn't drinking and we are so worried. So heres a bit of background.
ds was our first baby (so soooo many things we'll do differently if we have another!) and he's never been that bad with feeding. We were a bit slow with starting him on a cup but he's always been fine with a bottle. up until recently he would take milk (and diluted milk) from a bottle 3 times a day (about 7 ounces each time) and his eating is good. He has a sippy cup (tommee tippee) which was the most successful cup after quite a few. He has put it to his mouth and tip his head up but doesn't suck and has been trying less and less although he has it with him all the time.
Up until 5 days ago during his morning feed, he sucked so hard that the teat inverted and blocked. This upset him and he wouldn't have any more. This happened for the other feeds and since then he has not drunk from a bottle. Everytime he sees it he just cries.
That is pretty much the last time he had a significant drink.
To compensate we have been giving him lots of watery food and he's been getting some milk from a spoon from cereal in the morning but other than that he doesn't drink.
We've tried:
- straws
- cups with no lids
- diluted fruit juice
- pretending to toast him ("cheers" and clinking of cups) and that worked for a bit but not anymore
- we've even started showing him youtube videos of babies drinking to try and encourage him
The thing is, he's not acting any differently. His nappy is lot less wet but is wet. He's still active, he looks fine and noone would think 'he looks dehydrated'.
But its really upsetting my husband and I as we know how important it is to drink.
Has anyone been in this situation before? I guess we're looking for other tips/reassurance/anytyhing!! If we keep on making water available to him in a sippy cup during the day and a open cup at meals will he eventually drink??