DD is four, we are still bfing. I would have liked to have stopped years ago, she is a girl obsessed. We are weaning, just very very excruciatingly slowly. Sigh. We have been (forcibly) down to just morning and evening feeds only for a while. I couldn't think of anyway of stopping these two feeds which wouldn't be brutal (I have endless threads, I am a bfing bore, I'm so sorry ). In an exciting (for me) breakthrough, DD has suddenly started falling asleep while she is waiting for milk, so maybe 5 nights out of 7 she is falling asleep without boob. WAHOO! Still need to think of a way of dropping the morning one (think it will have to involve me getting up early, urgh) but it's a start.
Anyway, here is the thing. She still asks for milk ALL THE TIME. Like a hundred times a day. 18mo DS is still fed on demand so she sees him getting milk when he wants and is actually pretty good with that. She even asks when it's logistically impossible eg I'm driving the car and she's strapped into her seat in the back.
Does anyone else have an older child who constantly asks? I find it quite hard work, both invasive and guilt-inducing. I'm also wondering whether just giving her full access whenever she asks for a couple of days would help her get over this ... but am terrified of it backfiring and us backsliding :( Any words of wisdom for me?
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Is anyone feeding an older child who still constantly asks for milk?
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DitaVonCheese · 29/01/2013 16:42
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