My DS is 4.4 weeks old. Am BFing him. He isn't gaining weight quickly. He cries A LOT and brings back milk quite forcefully about 3/4 of the time.
He cluster feeds from 7pm til about 1.30am. It's exhausting me. He struggles with wind, screams, arches his back and gets very upset after/during feeds.
HV came and saw him doing all this, last Friday evening. She recommended mixed feeding. So am giving him a very occasional bottle of Aptamil Comfort milk. He only takes about 2/3oz. I've no idea if that's enough, because obviously I've no idea how much he gets from a breast feed.
He doesn't bf for long, usually about 15 minutes, then comes off and it's 20 odd mins of winding, a bit of sleep, then he's screaming again. It can only be wind or hunger surely? He's never awake and 'happy', just crying or asleep or feeding. I feel sad for him.
As for me, my breasts are agony. Not just the nipples, but the whole breasts. So so tender, I can't bear it if anything even brushes against them. They aren't engorged, and it's not mastitis. It's just agony all over.
My neck and back and arms are so achy and sore.
I just want to give up. But DS bf's to sleep and I don't know if he'd ff to sleep.
Please help, I'm shattered and I'm sore and I'm feeding constantly, day and night. I'm miserable and my other two DCs are 6 and 3 and are getting ignored. DH is supportive and very hands on, but he's back at work now, so he's out 8-6.30 every day.
Thanks in advance
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MummyIsMagic79 · 31/12/2012 23:26
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