Just have to get this out to those that will understand and that are not as flippin' ignorant as my family!! I have 2 ds, one 4 yrs and one nearly 4 months and my baby is ebf. He does feed a lot and he likes to suckle for comfort but if we are out for the day is happy to go 3 hours without a feed. We co sleep as we all get more sleep that way and both ds' , dh and me are perfectly happy with this.
However, the women in my family seem to take our situation as 'open season' on why I should stop. I get constantly told that their friends daughters/neighbours/aunts dog aren't going to bother with breast feeding as they don't like the thought of it/think it's disgusting / don't want to be tied to the baby!
The subject came up again the other day and it was said that someone they that bfd til 1yr was just 'weird' and my dm said you should stop feeding babies once they get teeth cos they get teeth for a reason ( my ds is currently cutting his first tooth) I did point that babies need milk after they get teeth which she kind of ignored!
I honestly don't understand why no one is supportive except my dh and what I'm doing wrong! No one ever says well done or your doing a good job it's just comments about too much hassle and 'he can't STILL be hungry!'
Very close to losing my patience and telling them all to bugger off and cancelling Christmas visits as I sense a big fall out brewing. Am I the only one with an unsupportive, opinionated family???
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Essexmamma · 07/12/2012 21:24
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