Ds2 is 19 weeks, was 9lbs 3 when born has plateau'd at 12lbs and is not gaining AT ALL since three month check. He is now second centile.
He has a lip tie and it affects the seal, he clicks when feeding, loses milk from his mouth and my nipples are bent out of all shape with a white crease on my left one, he keeps falling off the latch. I have taken to expressing on one side while he is feeding and refeeding it to him because I wanted to build up supply and make sure he was getting something but it is not really making any difference. Growth wise he is fine in terms of length/head circ. This is EXACTLY what happened with my ds1 at exactly the same age and it made 4-6 months hell on earth. I can see it going the same way.
Ds2 feeds two hourly - I switch feed 5/5/5/5 or until he comes off or seeks the other breast which he does frequently sitting up to get. Goes a bit longer at night - say three hours. I pump at four feeds and he clusterfeeds all evening but obviously not to much avail!
Ds1 had tongue tie with a corniculate tongue and the anterior tie was snipped and he rallied but we just never managed a three month growth spurt and it started to career down the charts. On HV advice I supplemented with one bottle of formula at 4oz which gradually rose between 4 and 6 months and later I always thought that it was because of this I had issues.. yet now ds2 who hasn't had a drop is following the same pattern.
Ds1 went back up to 75th centile within ONE month of starting solids.. so I feel confident he really was starving. I have a video of him eating and he looks like a starving child!
How could I get this lip tie/tongue tie thing sorted if HV says it can't be done? I hear online he's not too old but is he? Should I just top up ds2? I don't want to have him starving, I suffered IMMENSE guilt over this last time, got postnatal anxiety, suffered it in pregnancy etc. I am now much much better but I need to take action, it's not okay to have a tiny baby not getting enough food I think.
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Fairly sure ds2 has posterior tongue tie - HV says can't be treated. 19 weeks and dropped to 2nd centile from 91st - HELP!
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thunksheadontable · 07/11/2012 15:43
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