Hi all, we would really appreciate your help/advice/thoughts
We had our ds four weeks ago, we also have dd who is 2.3years old, when she was young she had problems with weight gain and we felt the health visitors undermined my wife breast feeding, in the end we dual fed, but both my wife and I felt that we didn?t get the support she needed for breastfeeding. She was encouraged to get dd weighed every week, and tbh that really stressed us out.
Now with ds I feel we are, yet again, being undermined? DW is really keen to ebf, and she has done a breast feeding peer supporter course, and has received help from the people who ran the course,
He was born at 8lb4oz,and by day 10 he was back up to his birth weight, and we were really happy (for dd it took three weeks). My wife took ds to be weighed yesterday, and saw one of the health visitors we had when we had dd, she weighed ds and he had gained 9oz in 16 days. She promptly said to my wife ?here we go again?- meaning ?this isn?t enough weight gain?. I saw dw at lunch time today and her confidence is shot, she?s worried she doesn?t know when he is hungry/windy/tired, which is crazy, she is a fantastic mum, and imho is going an amazing job.
Now ds has had a cold for five days, and although 9oz isn?t massive weight gain considering this cold , I think that this is well within the normal range.
To be fair, dw also saw the health visitor we would usually see, and she wasn?t concerned by this weight gain, but I feel like the damage is done.
Reading back I?m not really sure what advice I want/am hoping for, but really appreciate any thoughts??.
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willyk · 01/11/2012 16:55
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