I've been advised to post in here for some advice from chat - I'll paste my original below:
Bit of background - I had pfb dd five days ago, it was a difficult labour ending with an episiotomy. Dd did not feed very well, or really at all, for the first day and a half. She then started to feed quite well on the right, and with the help of a nipple shield (flat nipple) is now feeding on the left as well.Â
She had her five day midwife check today, and she's lost 9.6% birth weight, which is now an issue due to the changed acceptable percentage rate from 10 to 8%. So now I have to try to feed her every 2/3 hours on both breasts for at least 1/2 hour (on one breast, and then swap to the other) as this is what the midwife says she needs. But she won't feed more than every 3/4 hours, on one breast for 10/15 minutes and I don't know how to increase this. And my boobs arent getting hard between feeds so i don't know if I'm producing enough milk for her. DH is also upset because he can see me getting stressed and is also worried about our DD.
I did feel like we were doing okay and getting into a bit of a routine - she was feeding about every four hours for about 20 mins until she came off the boob herself, and now I feel like I've been doing it all wrong. I've been trying to wake her every 2/3 hours today, but sometimes she won't feed and will just go back to sleep for hours.
Shes being weighed again in thursday, and I'm just scared that she won't have put on enough weight, and the midwives will think I've not done well enough for my dd. Please could someone just reassure me that I'm not doing too badly, and that it's just the midwife freaking me out and changing my perfectly acceptable routines for no good reason, as I'm feeling a bit fragile and unsure?
Follow up info from chat thread, she is having plenty of wet nappies and seems fine in herself when awake, so signs of illness.
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