DC2 is due in late September/early October. With DS we had a very difficult start to BFing, followed by a few months of things working but not being ideal, followed by it finally all clicking, and he continued until he was 21mo and weaned related to me being pg. We had a number of issues, some of which we can hopefully avoid this time as I have more idea what to do, but I don't think it helped that he didn't have his 'first feed', there was some MW head shoving involved early on, and I then let him go too long without really trying again. So, I was hoping to get some advice on (a) how to maximise the chances of that first feed happening in the hour or two after the birth, and (b)what I should do if it doesn't.
So far on (a) I've thought: Skin to skin with baby immediately. If the MWs need to do any checks (breathing etc.) then of course they do, but leave weighing, measuring etc. until first feed has happened. Is biological nurturing a good idea? I love the theory, but am worried I'll get twitchy (possibly not helped by the MWs) if it takes a while for baby to latch on. If baby and I need to be separated because I need treatment then DH to hold baby skin to skin - any other tips?
On (b), if baby doesn't feed within one hour (or more?) let MWs do weighing etc, and then have another go if baby remotely awake/interested? After that, keep the baby close by, watch for feeding cues, and offer feeds. If we all go to sleep (e.g. as it's night-time), should we be setting alarms to make sure I'm offering feeds at least every 3/4/? hours? At what point should I start expressing colostrum if baby hasn't fed? I know some babies sleep a lot in the first 24 hours, but I'm not sure I really know what's 'normal' and they should be left to it, and what isn't, and it'd be better to intervene gently.
Sorry that's so long. I hope I'm worrying about nothing, and that DC2 will be a complete natural, but in case not, I'd like to be better prepared than last time. Thanks!
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