Hi everyone, my 12 week old DD has been diagnosed with a posterior tongue tie - I had suspected something was up from the very beginning - her latch is always very shallow despite endless repositioning and relatching, she clicks during nearly every feed, and my nipples are always very sore (not an agonising pain and they have only bled at the very start, and now more recently I have a crack at the base of one nipple which is slowly healing). About a month ago I came across the concept of a tongue tie by googling our 'symptoms' and took her to our GP, who declared that she definitely didn't have the classic anterior tie and that her tongue may be 'a bit short' and there was nothing that needed doing. I left feeling not entirely satisfied so I googled a bit more and came across an independent feeding advice service and had my DD looked at, resulting in the PTT diagnosis.
So... the reason I'm posting is because on the surface of it my DD is doing great - weight gain on track, plenty of wet and dirty nappies and she's generally a happy little thing. She has her moments - she can be quite fussy of an evening and occasionally can cry inconsolably but there's usually a reason - being taken out of the bath, tiredness etc but overall I think she's doing fine. BUT I guess now I know there's a reason her latch is so shallow, I'm dithering about wether or not to go for the snip. We'd prob go for the private option and have had Ann Dobson recommended to us. I feel kind of selfish because from DD's perspective life is dandy - she often wants to feed every hour and a half during the day which I'm happy to do as we're cue-feeding, and she rewards her frequent daytime feeding with excellent nights - only waking to feed once usually.
Sorry, this has turned into a massive ramble... I guess I'm wondering what others would do in this situation, and if anyone out there decided not to correct a PTT? From my point of view, and this is why I feel selfish, I wonder if she could go longer between feeds if she had a more efficient latch from getting the TT snipped, and obviously if this would also result in less pain for me. From what I've read I understand the cut is a fairly minor procedure and she wouldn't necessarily be in a great deal of pain, but OTOH I don't want her to go through any surgery, however minor, if there's any way to avoid it.
I should also say - at the moment, her latch is such that her tongue doesn't seem to adequately cover her lower gums as she has a tendency to clamp sometimes and I can really feel it! This is what's caused the crack at the base of my nipple... I want to BF for as long as possible but I'm scared that the onset of teeth might end our BFing prematurely if we don't deal with the TT...
Any advice or thoughts would be great, I'm obsessing over what to do and just keep going in circles!
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Posterior tongue tie advice.... feeling very confused :(
GinMonkey · 15/06/2012 16:14
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