I'm due dc2 in around 14 weeks, dd wasnt bf. I really wanted to give it a go this time round, as although i stick to my decision and know it was the right thing to do for dd and at the time, i still feel really guilty for not [hsad]
my mum (who is hugely supportive) had to give up bf after around 4 months due to it being too painfull. she said taking rasbery leaf tablets up to birth and during bf helped massivley, but it still hurt. i have a breast pump but have been told by a friend this hurts more than bf itself and i shouldnt bother [hsad] so what can i do to prepare? i know about cabbage leaves in the bra and lacintoch for sore and cracked nipples, but is there anything else i can do?
also i dont have a great support network around me my inlaws have made it very clear that i wont be allowed to bf in their house so will have to bring formula for the baby when we visit ([hhmm] how about dh, dd, dc2 and i dont visit untill i am good and ready to stop, which is what dh is backing me up on)
dh although has been very supportive infront of his parents who have brainwashed him thinks after all that i went through with dds pg and this pg and with the health issues i have, it would be easier on me to bottle feed, although is now coming round to the idea i want to bf and bought me the breast pump (with out being asked) so he can help if i want him to [hshock]. hes just worried about me putting too much pressure on myself and wants me to be happy, hes not anti bf, just concerned.
my mum is great but lives 1.5 hours away with a 4yo and 17mo dc's of her own, so it can be very difficult and rushed to have a conversation with her.
i was told of a great bf support group in my area, but when i called the councellor to talk to her and ask when where it was, i was told that dd (who will be 14mo) will not be welcome and although they do have some brothers and sisters attend the groups she cant because she wasnt bf, but she will be at the end of the phone if i ever need to talk [hhmm] [hsad] [hangry]
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addictediam · 23/10/2011 19:31
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