My friend had a baby 12 days ago and it's her first. She was determined to BF and I thought she was doing quite well. Her DD was 8lb 5oz when she was born. She dropped down to 8lb and has since steadily gained weight. Friday she was 8lb 4oz.
MW went for the last time on thursday and was very pleased with their progress. However the HV went for first time on Friday and told my friend that her baby wasn't getting enough milk and if by Monday she wasn't above her birth weight she would have to start giving formula top ups
Friend is now feeling really really down and like she isn't good enough as a mum. I've never seen her look as down as she did today.
I said I'd ask here for some other opinions. HV said everything looks fine with the baby just not being above her birth weight yet.
Any ideas? I really want to tell her something to make her stop thinking she's a rubbish mum.
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Help for a friend. Dd 12 days old and BF
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Kayzr · 16/10/2011 18:35
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