DD is 8 WO and EBF on demand. BF has been going really well and despite a slow start (traumatic forceps delivery and jaundice) she has been gaining weight along the 50th centile. Â Plenty of wet heavy nappies each day and dirty nappies about every other day.
However, I'm currently having a massive confidence crisis and am really confused about advice to start an evening top-up with formula.
The average length between feeds in the day is 2-3 hours then she cluster feeds in the evening, sleeps for a couple of hours then pretty much cluster feeds throughout the night until c6am. Â
I am getting very little sleep but am less concerned about this and more about the fact that she was weighed yesterday and had dropped a centile. Â Â HV's advice was to start an evening top up with formula milk because she's not getting enough from me.Â
I really feel under pressure to introduce some formula. My DH (who has been incredibly supportive of BF) has also suggested the same as he's worried that I can't survive on this amount of sleep (I can! I will!). Â My DM and MIL have been telling me from the start that she needs formula as she feeds too often. Â All my friends who have babies are FF and reckon that she will sleep/gain better if introduce a bottle in the evening.
  I went to Boots today to buy formula/bottles etc so that I'd have the option, only to realise I didn't have a clue what to get. I also suddenly felt really as it feels like I'm messing with something that's working really well and that DD and I enjoy and I'm worried about affecting my milk supply.Â
On the other hand, I would love to have a bit of time in the evening (poor DH has cooked dinner every night since DD was born!). I have tried expressing so that DH can bottle feed but I've never been able to produce any milk. Â Also, friends/family are making me feel like a stubborn old hippy for continuing with EBF.
I'd be so grateful for your advice. Â Is introducing one bottle going to affect BF the rest of the time? If I do introduce a bottle, what brands are best and what milk? Â What happens if I ignore the HV?
 I've been reading the feeding board since DD was born and have picked up such excellent advice but this is my first post. Sorry it's so long!
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Formula top-up for BF baby.....
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GoodbyeToAllThat · 13/10/2011 17:32
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