Never planned to be an extended (nor tandem) bf but find myself with a DS1 (3.5) who bf at bedtime (more often than not bf to sleep ) and also DS2 (10 mo) who bf 3-4xday and all night.
During a conversation about DC bedtimes etc this evening DP (who has always been very supportive of bf) said that he thinks DS1 should be weaned before starting school as he thinks it'll allow more independence and be 'healthier' from an emotional point of view.
I know that school is 10 months away so no need to stress about it but my feeling is that having got this far I'd really like DS1 to self wean rather than withdraw bf from him.
Bedtime bf seems such an ingrained part of his bedtime routine I struggle to see him giving it up of his own volition.
He did have a cup of cows milk in addition to bf when I was pg with DS2 (presumably my supply was low) but this has been turned down for a long time now.
I would love it to be his decision to stop rather than ours and would be very grateful to hear other people's experience / wisdom.
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'Extended' / natural term bf - when / how did you DC self wean?
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LakeFlyPie · 12/10/2011 22:21
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