Can anyone help please? Sorry this is a bit long.
DS2 is 16 weeks and a big healthy baby - 91st centile for length at birth and tracking 50th for weight, so now about 15 pounds. I've been mix feeding since about two weeks so he now has 2-3 bottles of formula in the day (about 5 oz) and bf in between and at night.
He's fine in the day, starting to stretch out between feeds to around 2.5 hours, naps ok - I try not to feed him to sleep and he goes off ok being walked around or increasingly just wants to be put down and rocked a little in his pram.
Night time is a whole different story. Due to emcs and various other factors we've been mainly co-sleeping. I've been managing to get him in his cot from about 8 and he'll sleep til around 10.30. He then has a bf but is quite sleepy at this point which is maybe part of the problem - he seems quite firmly latched on and will resist being pulled off but only does little sucks every few seconds. He never seems to wake up properly.
I then manage to get him back in his cot around 11.30 and he'll sleep for another 1/1.5 hours, at which point I bring him into bed with me and feed him lying down. After this he seems to go into a complete feeding frenzy, has to be attached to me all the time and even when he doesn't seem to be hungry is latching on and pulling off over and over. It's a bit like being in a bed with a small animal! He won't settle without a boob in his mouth.
I am not getting much sleep and I think we are in a bit of a vicious circle. I am too tired to keep putting him back in his cot and settling him when he wakes up every hour or so, but I think co-sleeping is making his sleep more unsettled - maybe the smell of the milk distracts him? - and we don't get any decent periods of sleep after about 1am.
I don't know whether it would be worth trying to commit to a week of doing proper sitting up feeds at night and putting him back in his cot every time, and see if that breaks the cycle? Or try waking him up more for his 10.30 feed and maybe giving formula so at least I know how much he's had? Any ideas?
I am reluctant to ask DH to help too much with settling at night as he's working and he's really hands on with DS1 plus managing a house renovation so he has enough on his plate really. I'm getting really tired and grumpy especially with DS1 which isn't fair on him. I'd really appreciate any advice.
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Struggling to cope with night-time feeding frenzy - any advice
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writeaboutlove · 27/09/2011 10:24
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