i have no idea whether she is hungry, and up to now have been feeding her every time she wakes which is generally at bedtime 7pm, then at 10.30pm, 2.am, 4am, 6.30am (get up). I have had enough! I am exhausted and am not functioning properly in the daytime, and don't have the energy i want to have for her in the day.
I'm wondering whether it she has got into a habit of expecting a feed for comfort when she wakes and whether she is not actually hungry. I don't think she can be properly hungry at each of these times. And so I am wondering whether i can stop feeding at some of these wakes? I am worried about not feeding her if she is actually hungry, and this is something i don't know how to judge. Any one have nay experience of this? Last night i offered her water in a bottle at 4am but she cried for a whole hour and a half and i ended up giving her a feed and taking her to bed with us :( so that didn't go down well. so, how do you judge when she needs a feed and when she doesn't...and if she doesn't how on earth do i manage to settle her when she is used to having my boob to comfort herself? Cuddles work at 9pm when she sometimes wakes and i refuse to feed her, but in the middle of the night all she wants is my boob it seems
I am trying to give her 3 meals a day, but at the moment she is still 'experimenting' -not eating full meals and is on 4 hourly feeds in the day too.
Any ideas? thanks!
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can i stop night feeds? - 6MO waking every 3 hours in the night and i'm not functioning properly.
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nello · 24/09/2011 09:21
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