I am an LP, with 4 dc. The older 3 are school age, I have to get up at 6.30am to get them ready for school. DS3 is 7.5mo. And still having 3-5 feeds through the night. I am flipping exhausted.
I asked the HV if there was anything I could do, as I am worried that he really doesn't eat much food, preferring 'mik mik' (bf) instead of food, and would it be because he isn't eating enough in the day that he is waking so much at night for milk. She advised me to controlled crying with him because he doesn't need milk at night. When I asked the bf lady at bf group, she said the same thing (but she thinks anyone that bf's a baby over 1yo is weird).
So even though I said I couldn't do CC (tried with an older child, just couldn't bear him being so upset), no other advice was forthcoming.
So, crap advice, need help, any suggestions. He usually has toast for breakfast - eats about 1/4 of a slice (given whole slice), sandwich for lunch, eats about half a slice, and whatever we have for dinner. Which he mostly squishes about, doesn't eat much of it. I've given up on mashed food, as he HATES being fed.
Need to get DS3 to eat more so he sleeps more and feeds less at night, for my own sanity. He won't take bottles. At all. Or beakers. Or drink from a cup. So that's out. I can't do CC, too at their crying. HELP. I've never fed this long, fed DD till 6mo, DS1 to 4mo, DS2 to 3mo. First two were ebf, DS2 was mix fed from 1mo.
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Crappy unhelpful advice from HV AND bf counsellor...
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CardyMow · 15/09/2011 00:44
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