Hi, I just posted a more 'practical' question regarding breast feeding, but really, I need some advice / encouragement. My baby is 7 days old. He was born at exactly 38 weeks and is quite small. I was also so surprised that he came before term and didn't have everything sorted out, was just in the middle of it. I am just describing my state of mind.
We, however, had an easy delivery, and I have tried to breast feed him from day one (he fed on birth), but at one point my colostrum dried up (day 2 and 3) and my milk did not kick in until day 4. I was so confused what to do at that point, and all the midwifes and councillors said to preservere with breast feeding. I did that, but there was no milk, my nipples were excruciatingly painful and the second night I think we went pretty much the whole night without feeding. I think it was like 10 hours. I am crying every day since then about it as I realise how bad this is for a baby. I was just so confused, did not understand that he was not feeding off me, I did not know what to do... I feel so bad. After that we had a midwife visit and she seemed not too worried about it and encouraged me to breastfeed. It had indeed gotten better since then. However, he had lost more than 10% weight on day 5, and we had to go to the hospital. They checked him out and said he was ok, but he must gain weight and to top him up with formula. I have been doing that since, an his nappies are getting better. But I would say that I am only doing ok now, and am so worried about what I have done to him until now. I just cannot stop crying.
Also now, he spends hours at a time feeding on and off and being awake. Surely this is not good for a tiny baby who needs to grow? The midwife is coming back tomorrow so I guess I'll ask her all this, but was just wondering if anyone had similar experiences and could encourage me? I feel like it cannot get better. I just don't seem to cope like everyone else. I have been told to express, but I just did not find enough hours in the day for 2 days to actually figure out how the breast pump works. I don't know where the hours in the day go, but I seem unable to care after my child.
If anyone can share experiences that would be great.
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9DonkeysAndABoy · 03/09/2011 21:30
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