I am due in 2 weeks time with nr 2. I am a professional and have a beautiful healthy 2 yo girl. This pregnancy has gone well and I am excited.
But I am getting so stressed at the thought of br-feeding. I struggled. I hated it. She was tiny and only started looking healthy & well when I introduced ff round 4mo. I don't actually feel like I can discuss it with anyone. DH will of course support whatever I feel but he also seems to remember things differently vs me.
The thought of sitting confined to a chair for hours on end with a tiny baby and unable to pay any attention to my eldest...
So. In short. Considering mixed or ff.
Any advice: how/when do you sterilise bottles?have an old tommee tippee microwave steriliser but lost instructions.
I can't discuss this with HV /MW as I only felt under pressure from them.
Unlike other posters/current threads-which I admire!- I am the opposite. Idont have this urge to try and br-feed/succeed/accept a small baby.
Maybe I am unrealistic and simply ff will not make early post natal period easier. Maybe I had bad blues and will again. But those days were so dark I am willing to try to alter something if this experience and actually try to enjoy -not resent-my newborn for the first3 mo.
Sorry for the long tale and thanks for reading.
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pugh · 11/08/2011 22:41
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