My DS is 7 weeks old and I still feel totally clueless. Hes a big boy (11lb 11oz) and formula fed. I have been trying to do the following (i posted on here before and told to go with the flow....clearly im finding that difficult!)
Between 6/7am and about 7pm- I try to feed every three hours. Some days he goes 3 hours but more often hes hungry at 2 to 21/2 hours. He takes up to 180ml per feed. I assummed being ff and taking that volume he would be able to go a bit longer? In that 12 hours he sometimes feeds up to 7 times which seems a lot for a ff baby?
After each feed (usually an hour after start) i put him down for a nap in his room- sometimes he sleeps but a lot of time he doesn't and he ends up wailing. Sometimes If i pick him up he settles and then wails when i put him down. i'm guessing he gets over tired? He yawns so must be tired? I have also tried keeping him up a little longer after feed as I thought i might be putting him down to early but it doesn't seem to make a difference. After a while trying to settle him and establishing that im flogging a dead horse trying to get him to nap then he gets more aggitated and im usually nearing the 2 to 2 and a half hour after is last feed so I feed him. He takes the feed but im worried about over feeding him, feeding him just because ive run out of options and its not actually food he needs?
Some days I feel really tearful as I feel like hes very aggitated and the only time hes content is whens when hes eating. I think i find the uncertainity of how he will be difficult.....I know thats mad as I can't control him but people do get them in a routine.
The only thing that seems to going OK is his bedtime rountine, he feeds between 7pm and 8pm after a bath and goes down. He wakes usually twice before 6/7am. Do babies just eventually sleep longer or do you actively do something do eastablish that. I have had lots of people asking me if hes sleeping through! Should he be?!
What age do babies generally settle into a routine. Is there anything im doing/ not doing that could help. Sorry its`a bit rambly im just tired....
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bettieblue · 08/07/2011 12:49
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