I have a 10 day old baby and am currently breast feeding, after a painful start it is going well and DS is putting on weight and is generally doing well.
The only problem is, because he is breastfed he is in my arms alot, he feeds every hour and a half or so, but some of this is for comfort I think, I don't mind, he is only tiny for such a short while and I love cuddling him and rocking him to sleep. He will only sleep in my arms and never for more than a minute or two in his moses basket. I have started to take him into my bed for his feed and then we both settle down and try and get some sleep - this way I at least get a little sleep at night.
I am so scared of having him in my bed though, as I am terrified of cot death, of suffocating him, of him falling out, getting stuck under the quilt etc - I don't put the quilt over him but I am worried I will pull it over him in my sleep. I don't see any other way of getting him to sleep though, especially whilst breast feeding as it is so easy to fall asleep whilst feeding him even though I try not too. I know I ought to persevere with his moses basket but I am so exhausted and he does nothing but scream if he is not in my arms.
If you breast feed do you co-sleep? How do you make sure you do it safely? Is it normal to co sleep with a breast fed baby?
All the baby books say not to sleep in the bed or on the sofa with your baby but it is so nice to be close to him and so much easier to feed him and get him back off to sleep. I am scared of losing him though, I adore him.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Get advice and support with infant feeding from other users here.
Infant feeding
Breast feeding Newborn/Co-Sleeping and Cot Death
15 replies
PrisonerZero · 22/06/2011 21:42
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.