DS was born 16 weeks ago, and I have been trying to EBF since then. We went from supplementing at the beginning (dodgy advice from the MW at my delivery unit) to just breastfeeding from week 3 onwards. It was bloody hard work, but I had the greatest sense of achievement doing it. And then my problems started!...
Basically for the past 4+ weeks, I have had a serious problem with my let-down reflex. I have loads of milk when I get let-down, but it's just getting to this point.. It started one morning for DS's 2am feed, and it's just carried on since then. One morning it took an hour to get the milk to flow through! It's just as well DS was so sleepy, otherwise would've kicked up a royal stink! I don't want to go back to formula, but don't know what the alternatives are. I have tried expressing till I get to let-down, but it's just as difficult-and not particularly practical at 2am in the morning! I am now using expressed bm, which I sometimes need, and sometimes don't depending on whether I've been able to successfully bf that morning or not.
Some days are better than others. But someone just has to mention 'how's your milk' when it all goes pear-shaped again! I have severe performance anxiety. I've tried EVERYTHING-relaxation (easier said than done), warm flannels, bachs rescue remedy, fennel tea, hot showers, kellymom website, LLL, fenugreek etc etc but nothing's helping. I just wish I can get over it...I just feel such a total FAILURE. Please someone say its only temporary and I can overcome it.
DS is lovely and bouncy, and it would abs break my heart if I had to give up BF altogether. Any advice? I haven't had any major stress or problems in my life, but this is becoming such a big problem for me...(sorry so long-winded) x
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ebmummy · 20/06/2011 14:56
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