My youngest is 17 days old/ 36+5 weeks corrected age. She's my third nurseling, I've been feeding none-stop for five years next month.
She went to NNU initially because there wasn't room on Transitional Care (the rooming in ward, basically) as she was born late at night I was taken to a postnatal ward and she was given a tube for her feeds and they gave her formula. It was supposed to be temporary until I could feed her and TC had room for us. She couldn't tolerate the formula. I gave them 30ml of colostrum next morning (how chuffed was I at my supply!) which they decided to split and give with formula over a few feeds but even that was thrown back up. She went to nil by mouth to give her tummy a break and put on a drip. She also ended up under the lights and didn't pass her first mec until she was 3 or 4 days old.
I expressed and quickly filled their fridge, I could get 200ml a time and she was started on 1ml an hour which was increased by 1ml every 8hrs. At 8 days old she was back on my milk and started to take it from me. We went to TC the following day and she came off the tube feeds. In those 9 days she had two periods under the lights, two different courses of antibiotics whilst they sent off blood to see why she was so sick and she carried on not opening her bowels very often.
Since we've been on TC she's continued to lose weight (obviously being nil by mouth she lost weight) which they expected going from regulated feeds to all breast but she's gone from her birth weight of 2.31 to 2.08 (5lb 1oz to 4lb 8oz I think) her bilirubin levels are all over the place, she comes off the bilibed then needs to go back on two days later (she's gone from 243 to 312 in two days this time, the phototherapy line is 250 and exchange transfusion line is 350) and she's not had a poo in 4 days.
Paediatrician came to have a chat with me today and asked me how I feel the breastfeeding is going and to be honest I'm confused! Her technique seems ok to me, the breastfeeding advisor and the nurses/ midwives, I have a rather abundant supply but after a feed can express very little. The lumps shift after a feed and I go from hard to soft, she's also getting milk drunk and sleeping well afterwards. To me and he agrees it appears she is getting fed but it doesn't match up with how she's doing. He's happy to leave her until Monday - before discussing her feeds he was talking about how to top her up - and see what her next weigh-in is and just try waking her more often although he said that may not help if she's not hungry.
I don't know what to do! I thought this would be my easy baby! If they top up it has to be my milk as she's intolerant to formula so it's going to be a never ending cycle of feeding and pumping Anyone have any suggestions? Or just sympathise with me. I don't mind which.
They - him and nurses - want to blame tandeming! I pointed out I'm not actively feeding the others - I'm in hospital they're not for a start - they haven't fed for over a month because I've been in so long and it's not like feeding a baby they do it when they feel like it.
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confuddledDOTcom · 18/06/2011 17:49
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