Hi All,
I posted a while back when DS was 8 MO and still waking 4x night for BFs. He is now 10 months old and still the same. I was sort of hoping he'd just grow out of it / start taking more solids in the day etc, but 2 months on there seems to be no improvment.
The last couple of nights I was really determined that he would not get a feed the first time he woke (about 2 hours after going to sleep), but it takes about 45 mins of crying/being picked up/falling asleep on my shoulder/being put back in bed/waking up immediately/crying etc. Then once he was exhausted, he would sleep for about 20 mins but then wake up again! Then I don't have the energy to go through it all again, so just feed him straight away as is the only thing that settles him.
I thought it might be that he just wants to come into my bed, as we feed in bed at night and I inevitably end up falling asleep and he stays in my bed til the morning. But even if I snuggle him in bed beside me, he still cries for boob. He then wakes up a further 2x at least.
I have sort of resolved just to continue feeding him every time he cries as A) it gets him back to sleep immediately B) if I leave him to cry he gets in such a state that he can't breathe/stands in his cot and falls and C) I just think ''well, he must just be hungry''.
Am I making a rod for my own back? Has this just become habit and should I be trying to break it?
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10 MO still waking all night long - hungry or habit?
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circlehead · 17/06/2011 13:59
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