Morning everyone. I have a two week old daughter, and, as happened with my son, who is now 3.5yrs old, i am not producing enough milk for her. With my DS we went through hell for the first two weeks of his life, not realising that he was basically starving, as i was feeding near enough constantly (with correct latch etc and plenty of professional advice) but apparently, not a great deal was coming out. he lost a huge amount of weight before anyone really realised what was going on and then i had no choice but to start on formula. i did mixed feeding for 10 weeks to try to give him whatever benefit i could and then stopped b/feeding altogether as what little milk i had was basically gone.
Because of what we went through with DS, i have been much more aware of potential problems with my milk supply from day one with DD. I started off exclusively BF but she seemed incredibly hungry even after long BF so i started topping up with formula in the first week. again she lost weight and midwives advised increasing the formula.
I am still doing both - i BF before giving her the bottle. I guess it's like a 'starter' for her before her main course from the bottle = certainly i can't satisfy her needs with my milk alone.
I would be happy to go on like this for a few months. However, now she seems quite 'bored' by breastfeeding; she started off with a very good latch but now seems to fuss a lot and constantly drop off the breast. It's like she knows she's going to get a nice easy bottle anyway so why should she bother?
does anyone have any thoughts on my situation? I am tempted to give up the BF as she has become so difficult to latch on for any period of time and I am feeling exhausted and a bit miserable about it. by trying to both BF and bottle feed, some feeds are taking two hours from start to settling her - by which point it's nearly time for the next feed.
I should add that i've had lots of support and advice and am gutted that it's happened again, but the most important thing is that my daughter doesn't go hungry. Is there any point in me persisting or should i admit defeat and move on?
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feel like giving up on b/feeding - encouragement please
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sotough · 16/01/2011 09:21
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