Dd2 (14 weeks) has started fussing at feeds in the evening. She is crying and not staying latched on. I think she is impatient for the let down & not staying on long enough to get it to come. Just now & yesterday I pumped to get the let down & that seemed to help. But I don't want to have to do that every time.
The thing is I seem to remember having the same thing with dd1 & I tried everything to encourage the let down but eventually I ended up just giving her ebm in the evening but dd2 is a bit of a bottle refuser & I don't want to do that anyway.
I remember DS's sleep changing around 3 months - he needed more quiet to go to sleep otherwise he'd get overtired and wouldn't settle. Took ages to realise his sleepy window was around 6.30 - if we missed it (so feeding had to start around 6) then I'd be buggered and would take hours to settle. DH and I had a lot of dinners separately! It did pass though so maybe keep trying an early bedtime and putting down and see what happens.