Hi, I posted a couple of weeks ago about my ds' mammoth all night feeds. Thank you to all those who replied but we are still struggling and I just don't understand what the problem is.
His pattern has now reversed so that at night (from about 1am) he is contentedly feeding every 2-3 hours and sleeping well in between (we co-sleep).
However in the daytime he just wants to feed for hours and hours, stopping only when he falls asleep. He never seems satisfied and as soon as I take him off he starts chomping on his fist, quickly moving to crying.
He starts off the day ok (he let my dh hold him for a whole hour this morning) but by now (midday) he is back to wanting to be on the breast.
While he is on the breast he goes through phases of sleepy sucking and frantic sucking, pulling off and re-latching poorly over and over, making my nipples sore. Sometimes I think it must be because he's hungry (my breasts feel empty during the day and the only time I hear him swallowing is at night) and sometimes it seems to be connected to wind or bowel moverments, which he seems to find very uncomfortable.
He then has a screamy period in the evening where nothing seems to comfort him. The only thing that seems to work is the fast-flowing feed he gets after my breasts have had a couple of hours rest.
He is gaining weight and has lots of wet and dirty nappies. His nappies have a distinctly green tinge to them. He's on infacol as the HV suggested colic.
Sorry for the long post - I can't see the wood for the trees to understand what is going wrong here. I have a baby who spends most of his waking hours upset or trying to feed (often both at the same time), sore nipples, feel low and lots of headaches, and I can't even give the baby to someone else to hold between feeds because most of the time there is no between feeds!
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Can anyone help me figure out what is going on? Still struggling with 4 wk old ds and breastfeeding
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plasticspoon · 01/12/2010 12:15
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