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Chances of Conceiving???? (Please don't judge me)(5 Posts)
Hi, I don't really no where to start, so hope this all makes sense. I'm 22, and I've just had a Ectopic pregnancy treated by Methotrexate Injection (No tube removal). I was told one of my tubes is damaged but the other one seems fine, and I also found out I had Chlamydia at the same time, which I'm so embarrassed of as it probably the cause of my Ectopic (I contracted the Chlamydia whilst on a break from my boyfriend who I have been with for 4 years). But it is not this that is making me scared I will never conceive again.
When I was 12, I was abused by an older man. I contracted Chlamydia twice, Gonorrhea, and HPV, which I think later caused me to contract warts. I also had a baby at 15, and I've had four abortions. I know this sounds terrible and I have been judged all my life. I know what I sound like, and what people will think, but please, I'm looking for anyone who has a similar experience, or anything, just to give me a bit of advise as weather it is possible I will conceive again, as before my Ectopic I never had a problem, but I think this was the end of my fertility for me.
Please do not judge me I am a changed person from the screwed up kid I used to be I now have my own House, Car, Job and a beautiful daughter and boyfriend. I'm just so scared please help!
Obviously I no this maybe embarrassing for people and admit things like these so please feel free to inbox me xxx
why would anyone judge you for having been abused as a child!
I'm not sure about your question, but didn't want to read and run. Good luck
I didn't want to read and run. I've not experienced an ectopic myself but logically I don't see why you wouldn't conceive again. Lots of people conceive after an ectopic. You've got one good tube and one not so good so it might take a little longer but it won't be impossible.
It might be worth asking MN to move this into conception or normal chat for more traffic as its currently in bloggers chat
Yes I have done I only just made they account today, wasnt sure weather to go lol x