I recently started a new job. I was offered two other jobs one fully remote with the same salary as this job, another paying more but requiring me to be in the office once a week. I told the recruiter that this was the case and I would be withdrawing my application.
He called and swayed me on this job, insisting it was one day a week in the office and flex work and I would have toom to grow and many opportunities as jt was a new department starting up with a niche interest and the bonus would bring me up th
To the latter job's salary so I took it. First red flag should be the other jobs provided the contract immediately and this job I started hasn't even given me a contract yet and I'm concerned I won't make payroll this month which would be an absolute trainwreck for me as I am in desperate need of the money.
The worst thing however is I have chronic back pain and cannot walk more than 20 to 50m without being in significant pain. The result is obviously massive weight gain and I am morbidly obese which I am trying to fix, but my manager who I asked to clarify what flex work meant and she confirmed was only one day a week has asked me to come in everyday this week and a couple of days next week. Not only am I tired and in extreme pain from the commute (walking to the train station, climbing up several stairs, you can imagine how difficult it is to commute on the underground with mobility issues esp with some stations not equipped for disabled people). The pain is unbearable and I am a sweaty mess. I can manage one day a week as I can up early and take 90minutes for a 40 minute commute with plenty of breaks and allow myself to catch my breath.
This is not tenable for me. How do I address this. I like the job and could understand having to come in for training but wish this had been clarified beforehand as I would have said it didn't work for me and they could have withdrawn their offer.
What do I do?
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Handyangy · 19/06/2021 14:22
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