6wks pregnant after MCs Jan/June.....and 39! anyone else out there?

[babycow]

HI, i am have just found out am about 6 weeks pregnant after MCs in Jan 7 wks and June 8wks. Am just scared and terrified but cant help being excited again. I am posting on here hoping to talk/share with other ladies in this situation mainly because most of my family/ friends think i am mad/irresposible and should stop as i have two DD age 12 and 7. I love my family but there is this ache that will not go away, just i feel my family is not done especially with the MCs. Havent told anybody yet and will probably not do till well after 12 wks, so this is hopefully going to be my outlet! is there anybody else who is just pregnant or been in this situation...i would love to hear from you.

[sunburntats]

i litterally stopped breathing for 10 seconds when i read your title.
i have got every single bit of me crossed for you, i hope SO much that you will be ok, and that this pregnancy will be healthy.

its all a bit exciting though isnt it.
SO exciting in fact. You are so lucky, sososososo lucky.

[sunburntats]

not in the same position sorry, but also had loads of mcs.
trying again now. having fertility treatment hopefully.
i just feel for you and understand your anxiety.

[babycow]

sunburntats , thanks so much for your post, i know i am so lucky about concieving, it is holding on to them i have the problems with. I had two mcs before my first d and three early mc between daughters so that is seven in total but i am always told at epu that it is incredibly common and just try again! i suppose you have been told the same but it is even harder if you struggle to concieve as well, my heart goes out to you. I sincerely hope your treatment is sucssesful and you get pregnant..thanks again for your kind wordsXXX

[welshlovely]

Hi babycow I am nearly 12 weeks PG after suffering 3mcs, one at 7 weeks about 4 years ago, an ectopic in September last year and one at 5 weeks in March this year. I have a 9 year old DD who I had with my ex DH. I have since remarried. I understand how you feel, excited but you don't want to be because of what has happened before. I haven't told many people yet waiting until I've had my 12 week scan next Thursday but it is getting increasingly difficult to hide as a bump is starting to show! The only advice I can give you really is to try and relax and the weeks will fly by I promise (even though it won't feel like it!) Could you get an early scan at about 8/9 weeks to reassure you?

[Duritzfan]

Hi ..

I know this thread is slightly out of date but I only just found it .. Im in the same position as you babycow .. I am 37, have two children aged 13 and 10 - Ive had 8 miscarriages and am currently seven weeks pregnant .. I feel exactly the same way as you and if you want to keep in touch, send me a message - we can keep each other company through this ..x

[claireyfairey1975]

Me too girls
Six weeks pregnant two children 8 & 6 and two 11 week miscarriages 07 and 08
Terrified and exited , happy but so worried.
Also not telling anyone been there done that ad not happening this time!
Would love to chat